Monday, April 27, 2015
Gracie Goose is Two!
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Sunday, February 22, 2015
Christmas Tree 2015
Well, the adventure of our Christmas tree this year is one for the books. There are no Christmas tree lots in Sanpete county. Come to find out they all cut them down. We had no problem with that. We thought it might be a fun tradition while we are down here. The permits were just $10 so it was way cheaper than usual. We went first thing in the morning for the permit and it's good we did. The permits sold out in a couple hours After that Brian and I decided to head up some of the canyons and determine a good place to go to cut down trees. The older kids were in school so we headed up Manti canyon. We would drive for a while then stop and look for trees. All we could find were shrubby, bushy trees. After going for a while we decided to turn around...well that didn't go so well. The van slid right into a rut with the tire bending a weird way. It. was. disaster. No one knew we were up there. It was just me and Brian and Grace. We had no tools. Brian was pushing like crazy and digging with a snow scraper. He would push, we would move a tiny bit, then he would have me change my tire angle and push some more. We were moving inch by inch. Finally, after about an 45 minutes, Brian told me to go forward and we were out of the rut. I was a complete panicked, praying my heart out mess through the ordeal. It was bad. bad. bad. We are not the right kind of people to get stuck in the mountains. Yikes. We figured that people must not be getting their trees in that canyon so we headed up another. Same problem. Slippery roads and bushy, ugly trees...not a fir in sight. We headed across the street to our neighbors. He works for the forest service down here. We asked where to go to get trees. He told us two place. Turns out we had to go higher up. We asked if we could get there without 4 wheel drive and they said that wouldn't be a problem. So we bundled up the kids and headed up. I thought we were going to die. The dirt roads were narrow and slick and Brian had to go fast enough that we not get stuck or slide backwards but slow enough to not slide off the edge of a cliff. I just gripped the door handle and prayed. We finally made it to the lake that our neighbor told us about. There were definitely pine trees and we were excited.
We all bundled up and started walking. About 5 minutes in to this walk, Grace got snow in her boot and about a minute after that she started screaming. Inconsolably crying. She was freezing and didn't want to do what we were doing. There was nothing I could do for her and she was getting heeeaaaavy.
We were all cold and ready to be done and still had to tie the tree on to the van. About 10 minutes down on the drive, Gracie warmed up and stopped screaming. \It was the same harrowing drive back down. I thought we'd all die for the sake of a tree and no one was really in a good mood anymore. Fun family adventure, right? If we do it next year, we will have chains for the van and a babysitter for Grace...for sure!
Well, if that wasn't enough of adventure, it gets worse...much worse. We got down the kids fighting and complaining. They got yelled. They really wanted to decorate the tree that night. We should have just called it a night at that point, but were trying to do it all. We went up to set up the tree in the stand and immediately notice that the tree wasn't exactly straight. In fact it was really more like a C shape. I watched as Brian fiddled with the tree stand like he does ever year. Getting the trunk exactly straight in the stand and tightening everything up. I thought surely he was going to make some adjustments at some point because the tree was tipped very precariously and leaning into the wall. He stood up and looked at it and his jaw dropped. With the bottom of the trunk perfectly straight the tree was curved sharply into the wall at the top. It was horrendous.
That was the final straw for Brian. I found it kind of humorous at this point. Not as humorous as I find it now, but enough to chuckle a little. Brian was just mad. He called around to find out if anyone was getting tree shipments...nope. He called his cousin. She knew of a family in their ward that got a few trees and sold them from their garage. That sounded not so good. I told Brian to give me the day with the tree the next day and that I would find a way to make it work, and if I didn't we would drive to a home depot somewhere and get a different tree. The next day, I started by trimming the bottom of the tree down so that it looked more even and uniform. It still wouldn't stand up in the stand though. Next I built screwed an anchor into the wall and used fishing line to anchor the tree to the wall. I didn't want it tipping over. It already had trouble staying up and their were no ornaments. After I got it anchored, I spend a verrrrry long time on the ground readjusting the trunk so that the top of the tree looked straight. When the top of the tree looked straight the trunk was going into the stand at a sharp angle, without the anchor it would have just tipped over. Then I used the pavers you can see above to weight down the tree stand and help anchor it. It looked pretty good. I was please, but the problem now was that there one side of the tree was horrible and was clearly the side that needed to face the wall. The other side was good everywhere but one big whole on the bottom. I looked at it and decided that we should trim off the bottom layer of branches and that would eliminate the whole but then we should probably cut the trunk down a little too. I waited for Brian to get home from work to see if he agreed with the idea. He did and we measured the amount of trunk we should remove. Brian sawed and we put it back up...dun dun dun. We took off too much. Our tree was standing but it was now about 5 feet tall. Argh! Blasted tree. So, we decided to put the stand up on cinderblocks to get our height back. It worked and looked good. Now if that isn't one for the books, I don't want to know what is.
Pretty, good if I do say so myself. Future note to selves, If a tree is growing on a steep hill and looks totally straight, it isn't.
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Monday, January 26, 2015
Adin's Baptism
I never wrote down much about my baptism day so my memories are pretty vague. The thing I remember most was Grandpa Marchant giving a talk and talking straight to me. I also remember mom braiding my hair so that I would be able to be out fast after the baptism. That's about it. I really encouraged Adin to write down his thoughts on his baptism but I don't think he has. When Meg was baptized I wrote her a letter of my memories from the day. I did the same for Adin. This is it below.
We did a lot of talking beforehand about this step in your life and about receiving the holy ghost. We asked you if wanted to be baptized. You said an absolute yes. Your dad and I told you about our experiences with the Holy Ghost. We talked about how oftentimes in the church you are taught about voices people here or profound experiences. We talked about how our experiences with the Holy Ghost have been more subdued and more feelings of comfort and peace. We really tried to instill the significance of this choice.
It was a little hectic before your baptism. We only got a few pictures. Daddy forgot his garments for after the baptism so mommy had to rush home. It was a little crazy. Your service was held in the primary room and now that room holds a really precious memory for me. Me, you, daddy and Grace sat down on the front row (Meg was sitting with her cousins). We started singing the opening song, When I am Baptized. I looked over at you all dressed in white. Daddy had his arm on your leg and you had your arm wrapped through his. You sang the song from memory. It was one of those moments where you make a mental picture. My eyes immediately filled with tears and daddys did too. It was a really special moment for me. I hope that mental picture never fades. I feel very strongly about following Jesus in this life and baptism is a commitment to do just that. I was so proud of you for making that choice. I looked at you and couldn't believe we were at this event. I couldn't believe you were eight. My heart burst with how much I love you.
Grandpa Droubay gave a talk about baptism. He spoke directly to you and talked about being accountable and choosing to follow Jesus. After that we went into the Relief Society room and you went with your dad into the font. You looked a little nervous. It was a beautiful moment. After it was over the thing you remembered the most was that your feet came up (and they did). You were worried. They didn't come out of the water though so you were good.
After the baptism, Daddy and Meg sang Teach Me to Walk in the Light. It was beautiful. They practiced really hard. Daddy sang harmony so Meg worked hard to be able to hold her own notes. It was absolutely beautiful and everyone commented on it.
After Grandpa Marchant talked about the Holy Ghost. He wrote his talk out for you to be able to keep in a memory book. It was a perfect talk about what the Holy Ghost can do and about repenting.
My second favorite part was the confirmation. Grace ended up having to be taken out by uncle Mike so that mommy could accompany Daddy and Meg and she was still whimpering so I was standing in the back. Daddy's blessing giving you the Holy Ghost was beautiful and it struck me that it was very unique to you. He talked about people being in the room from the other side of the veil supporting you on this day. The main thing that struck me about your blessing was that Daddy spoke of the Holy Ghost teaching you to love. He talked about the apostle John. He said that the Holy Ghost could give you the power to seek out and love those in need. He talked about how much Heavenly Father loves you and how much your parents love you. He told you the Holy Ghost would be a source of comfort for you.
You have always been a leader and kids gravitate to you. Your friend Jared said it best the other day when I was bringing you two home from school for a playdate. He said, I didn't used to like Star Wars and now that I met Adin, I do. He said, Adin has this weird magical power that makes people like the things that he likes. You just draw people to you, and I think this could be a great power of good for you in your life. Your confirmation blessing reiterated that feeling I've had. You can use your ability to love and be loved for a lot of good in your life.
I asked you later at night how the day went and you said it was awesome. It really was.
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Wednesday, January 21, 2015
Reflections Awesomeness
Meg standing by her piece at the regional recognition night. We have big plans to go up to Salt Lake and see her piece in The Leonardo this spring. So proud of this beautiful girl of mine.
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Sunday, January 11, 2015
Adin's Great and Unfortunately Eight
What? Hooooow did this happen? Meg was just baptized yesterday. Aren't they a couple years apart? Grrr. He did it thought. He went and turned eight despite my pleading, begging, warning and threatening. When I was up doing my treatments I decided to use the time to plan his birthday party. I do them every other year. I called him on the phone and asked him what kind of party he wanted. He really didn't know. I was browsing through ideas of parties for boys and mentioned a spy party and it was quickly decided that that was for him. There are just tons of party ideas online leaving little need for creativity. I'm really good at following directions and just tweaking a few things. It was a huge success. Every single one of the kids showed up and talked about it incessantly for weeks ahead.
These were the invites. They had to use their red decoder to read the information about the date and time. Then they had a key and some symbols to decode to learn the secret password that they needed to enter the safe house where they were reporting. I got all sorts of funny RSVP texts from parents like "Braydon reporting for duty, scheduled to arrive at safe house at time indicated." The password was "The Red Falcon has gone dark." The kids discussed this at school for the couple weeks before the party trying to decide what that meant.
We started the party with the kids having to give the passcode to get in. Then I took pictures of the kids and hurriedly printed ID badges for them. I knew that would be the most hectic time and it was. I don't know these kids very well to know their personalities and I they were getting suuuper hyper while I was in printing off name badges. I really wanted their pictures to be on the name badges so I had to take the pictures, run in and download them, then format them onto the name badge. There were some glitches and it had my blood pressure spiking. I returned to find kids jumping off furniture and standing on chairs to touch crystal chandeliers and kids wrestling on the floor. Oh boy. Then we put their fingerprints on their ID badges. I don't have a close up of the badges, darn it, but you can see them in the picture below. We started with a meeting in the situation room (sun room). I had a world map, a chalk board and the laptop set up. I made Brian videorecord a message giving the agents their mission. Heehee. There was a lot of laughing involved as we made the video.
First a funny attempt, there were quite a few of these.
And the masterful, Oscar worthy final product
I showed the kids this picture of the Red Falcon. I made it blurry and in black and white. Some of the kids still knew it was Meg, but that didn't matter.
After I made them start their physical fitness training. Push ups, Sit ups and jumping jacks.
At that point Meg rang the doorbell and ran. The kids all ran for the door probably thinking that it was another kid. She left a package on the porch. They were freaking out when they saw the package. A couple of them thought it might be a bomb and they were serious. They very gingerly carried the package to the situation room. Inside there was a key and a walkie talkie. As I was opening it a couple other boys were stepping way back and leaving the room because they were sure it was going to explode. Heehee. It was hard to keep a straight face. We turned on the walkie talkie and it was Meg giving the next clue. They didn't pick up on the fact that it was the Red Falcon giving their next clue. This is what she said:
The case has taken a turn for the worse. We have intelligence that the Red Falcon has discovered that you have convened at the safe house. She knows you are preparing to destroy her plot. She knows the location of the safe house and you are no longer safe. We have had sightings of her as close as Ephraim, Utah. We know she is close. She will stop at nothing to thwart our plans to take her down. You are all in imminent danger. More information has been left at the dead drop location. It's protected by high beam infrared lasers so proceed with caution.
We figured out that the dead drop location might be underground so we decided to try our basement. Our basement is pretty creepy. I put a suitcase way back in the polygamy hall and none of the kids would go get it. Eventually a girl and Adin stepped forward to do it. It was a little suitcase I got at DI a few years back. The key that was in the package on the doorstep opened the briefcase. They carried it back to the situation room and opened it. Inside was an ipad that I had a voice changing app on. The voice I chose was kind of robotic and reeeally creeped the kids out. They were freaking out at this point. This is the message from the ipad
Hello agents, my handlers have let it slip that your target is hiding in the safe house. You are now in serious danger. As you look for her be careful. She is very good at setting traps to alert when someone is approaching. If you find her journal you will have everything you need to close in on her and save NSA. She will not make it easy for you to get your hands on that journal. Enclosed you will find a map. Follow this map to the location where we believe the journal has been hidden. If you find her, remember your mission is to take her down and dismantle the bomb. Be safe and watch each others backs.
The map led them to the garage area. There is a wooden box in their for toy storage. I installed a lock thingy on it and put a combination lock on it. There were balloons all over the floor that they had to pop and in three of them they found pieces of a puzzle that they put together, which gave them the combination for the lock. Inside they found a backpack. It had another map and silly string and wire cutters. They followed the map which led them to the backyard where Meg was. They were relentless with that sill string.
Meg wasn't feeling like a good sport after this. :) Poor girl. I sure was grateful for her help though.
Here they are dismantling her bomb.
Now that the mission was solved we went in and they decorated their own cupcakes at the cupcake bar and drank water that was turned into "truth serum". Then they did presents,
That's Adin's best friend here, Jared.
It was a huge success and made Adin super happy. I was so worried that the kids wouldn't play along with the mission and would be rude or ruin it with bad attitudes. Not so. It did start out with one kid saying, that he knows this is all fake so he was just going to laugh at everything. I thought that wasn't so nice to say. I came to realize it was because he was scared to death. He stuck by me the whole time and kept saying, I'm sticking with you, this is so scary. :)
A few days later was the actual birthday. It was on a Sunday, which is this eight year old least favorite day. :) I'm hoping he grows out of that. The benefit was that daddy was home from work so presents were done early. He's so easy to shop for right now.
We love this kid more than we can express. He brings so much fun and laughter to our lives. He's a bright spot for sure. He is hilarious and witty. He is super smart. He is very thoughtful and kind hearted. He is still a mamas boy and I hope he will be forever. He really is our favorite boy in all the land. We are so blessed that he is ours.
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Thursday, January 1, 2015
Halloween 2014
We had a rodeo queen, the dark knight and tinkerbell. I took my camera to the Droubay Halloween party and forgot it so I just have a couple and some taken with Meg's camera.
Meg was a rodeo queen because she loooved the rodeo we went to this year and would love to be an actual rodeo queen.
Adin has been batman a time or two in the past. He was specific about wanting to be the one with the black bat, which some research taught me was the Dark Knight. He was really annoyed that people thought he was batman and kept correcting people everywhere we went.
Trick our treating here was somewhat of a bust. Manti City does a trunk or treat on Main Street. People come from all the neighboring cities. I was told it was packed and to avoid it. We walked down to check it out really quick because we thought it would be a quick way to get a bunch of candy. Not so. It was the lamest thing I'd ever seen. You stand in this slow moving line that moves up and down main street and walk by cars and get candies. You literally stand in line...not just any line....a huge line. It was so ridiculous it ticked me off. We tried to trick or treat neighborhoods and it was really hit or miss. Since the trunk or treat is so popular most people don't plan for traditional trick or treaters and so it was hard to find candy. It was pretty brutally cold out so Gracie only did a couple houses. The first one we went to, Gracie waited for them to open the door and when they did she just walked right past the lady and into her house leaving me and the kids on the porch. It was pretty cute. I ended up taking her back and putting her to bed with the plan on handing out candy. Literally one kids came the whole night. Pathetic. Thankfully, Brian's friend from the ward, was their last stop and since he hadn't had any trick or treaters either he dumped his bowl of candy into the kids bags. They thought that was so awesome that any lack of candy from other houses was forgotten and I'm sure that will live on their memory forever. I've got to start thinking of a plan for next Halloween and I'm fairly certain it will involve getting out of this town and finding some traditional trick or treating. :)
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